Mom Mom is my maternal grandmother. She passed away far too early when I was far too young. She meant the world to my mom and my mom has never stopped missing her.
Mom Mom didn’t have an easy life – she married a difficult man and had five children. (And I know at least one of them – my uncle John – really kept her on her toes!) She raised her children in the city of Wilmington, Delaware.
I think most of what I remember about Mom Mom is from pictures. Pictures of her at my aunt Debbie’s wedding, pictures of her holding my cousin Patrick as a baby. Pictures of her sitting at the kitchen table with us. Pictures of her holding me as a baby, me with a huge grin and lots of drool.
My grandmother loved her pink velour sweatsuit, and that’s what she was buried in. A few years ago, my mom gave me my Mom Mom’s beloved pink hooded sweatshirt (I guess she loved pink!) It’s hanging in my closet – I can’t bring myself to wear it, but I think of her every time I see it.
We aren’t a particularly religious family – but both my mom and I think that Mom Mom has come back to us from time to time. She was a smoker and both mom and I will smell cigarette smoke at random times throughout life and we both think that Mom Mom is around, telling us she’s here. Before Ken and I got married, my mom had a dream that she was out shopping for a present for us with my grandmother. Mom Mom picked out some special glasses (in the dream). The next day (in real life), my mom did go out shopping for our wedding shower, walked into a store, and there were the glasses my Mom Mom had bought in the dream. We still have them today.